Hi Isy,
The first year of college can be tough. Hang in there though, it will get easier with time! In the meantime, here are a few tips to help you with time management:
1. If you don't already have one, get a calendar/day planner. Whether it's the pen and paper variety, electronic PDA, or a calendar on your computer (iCal, Outlook), this will definitely help keep you organized. Write down class times, meetings, your work schedule, assignments due, and other important events. Always knowing what is ahead keeps your stress down and helps you stay organized.
2. Concentrate on one or two extracurricular activities only. Spreading yourself too thin leads to stress and does not allow you to devote as much time or effort to these clubs as you could. Find one (or maybe two clubs) you really enjoy, are passionate about, and/or will help you after you graduate and focus on those.
3. Eat and sleep well. You will perform better when you eat regularly and choose healthier foods. I know this can be hard in college, so keep a stash of healthy snacks like nuts, whole grain crackers, and fiber-rich granola bars. This will help you stay alert. Getting on a regular sleep schedule will help with stress and focus as well. It sounds simple, but it will really help!
4. Remember that academics come first! You are in college to get an education and that is your number one priority. Once you get used to college life, you can add more extracurricular activities, nights out with friends, or more hours at your part-time job. A little investment now will pay off big time!
5. Get a tutor. Schools usually offer tutors to students for free or very low cost. When you're crunched for time or having difficulty in a certain subject, a tutor is a great resource. They can help you maximize your study time and give you tips for studying/learning. You can also go to your professors and ask for help from them. Don't be shy! :)
I hope this helps! Please let us know if you have any more questions or concerns.
Best,
Amber George